why a DMZ?
If i had a some Cisco gear in this rack it would be much more simple but sadly it's all virtual.
I just need mono wall to act as a router, put arp information to the data centers core router so it routs through my mono wall when doing trace routs from the internet. It should be simple but since the examples section of the mono wall docs seams to be a little vague when it comes to 1:1 nat I'm lost as to how to make this happen.
I only said that a DMZ was simplest because the data centre is forwarding a subnet to you. Proxy ARP should work, but it is more complicated since you will also need to set up the 1:1 NAT.