But just to make it clear. Does M0n0wall block traffic between 2 different LAN-interfaces with the default configuration?
Yes.
But the rules you have in place allow the traffic and by default it allows traffic from the LAN to any. The fact you aren't getting traffic both ways would point to an IP problem. Can you hard wire a PC to the opt network either with a switch or crossover cable. Check you are getting a DHCP address in the correct subnet and have connectivity.