m0n0wall uses rtadvd
you will find the config file in
/var/etc/rtadvd.conf
where you will find a line like this
em1:raflags="m":maxinterval#10:mininterval#4
you need to edit it (upload a new on and cp into place ) to have an mtu option like this
em1:raflags="m":maxinterval#10:mininterval#4:mtu#1280
and restart rtadvd.
I will look at adding this option into the UI when my day job stops spilling into the evenings !